About the Author

Greetings,

     May Peace Be Multiplied to you.

     First let me say, Thank  You for taking your precious time to visit www.WhenOneFleshWorships.com. I will now impart some key things about myself – why, or what makes me credible or worthy to tell you about marriage?

     I have spent many years, over a decade, working behind the scenes in media type ministries. One day, after working like mad in ministry, I had to take a hard look at my own family and marriage. I remember the day, very clearly, when I sat on a couch in an office in Virginia Beach, VA across from a lovely senior  couple (marriage counselors) and was asked “Mrs. Wright have you always seen the cup as half empty instead of half full?”

     I felt as if my husband and the counselors were ganging up on me. Surely they did not think I was a negative person? Moreover, I had ministered to others over the years, we held the office of “Deacons” for many years. Why would I need counseling?

     Let me tell you. It is very sobering, saddening, and nauseating to realize that you may not be the person you think you are. The perception by others of you, namely your spouse, may not be the perception you have of yourself. You say you already know that.

     This lovely couple prayed with us extensively and initiated Bible based family study times for us. This was interesting to me because our family had sat in church Sunday after Sunday for many years. This valley in my life led me into a season of worship which ultimately ended in my husband and I being mentored by a praying Pastor who valued being in the presence of the Lord.

     The Pastor was a woman. At this time, I had given up on ever working in a church in a media capacity again and had resolved myself to the pews. However, my marriage was on the upswing. Okay, it was better than on the upswing. It was incredible.

     I then went into a season of prayer. For approximately 18 months almost daily I prayed for two hours at a small church on the James River in Virginia during noon day prayer. There would be maybe two, three or four of us who gathered on a regular basis. The Lord began to show me visions and speak with me.    

     When one of my closest sisters in the spirit told me of her upcoming wedding, I decided to translate my deepest notes into a small booklet for her that would share my most inner revelations on marriage by the Lord as a bridal shower gift. The booklet evolved into what is now “When One Flesh Worships.” When the majority of the book was written, I had no idea it would end up in wide scale distribution. It was written as an intimate sharing of marriage for a close Christian friend.

     Therefore, I say to you today. Your spouse is a full grown adult. This person cannot and should not be controlled or manipulated. They can however be prayed for.

     Notwithstanding, you with God’s help can go into a season of introspection and (if you can take the pain and nausea) ask God to reveal the areas in your life that you need to change in order to be a Better Lover to your husband.

    This action is not for the faint of heart. Some days you may cry. Some baggage we carry comes from our upbringing, and generational problems that have gone on for years in our family line. Sometimes our behavior is so ingrained in us from our childhood observations we immediately react unbiblically although unintentionally.

     The end of a season of working on self can be joyous. There will be those who say as they read the book, “What about my husband? What does he have to do?”

     Understand this book is about introspection and being what we are called to be as wives. Your husband will have to answer in the day of judgment for every spoken word, action and every secret thing  - just as we  all must. I must admit, however, when the Lord made me over, somehow my husband was made over too. Why is this?
 

Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure,
pressed down, and shaken together, and running over,
shall men give into your bosom. For with the same
measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again.
-Luke 6:38 (KJV)

I, personally, believe that there is no way you can, sow, invest and give into your marriage without reaping huge rewards back.


Now if you are ready for ascending with your spouse like never before, I recommend to you When One Flesh Worships.

God Bless You and Yours,

J.T. Wright,  Author of When One Flesh Worships
http://www.WhenOneFleshWorships.com