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When One Flesh Worships

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      What is Marriage?


Marriage is a self applied yoke. A yoke was used in the Bible to join  two oxen together. They were forced to move in unison. You will become One Flesh with another human being.


There are people who will enter into marriage in a 15 minute ceremony and then spend years trying to get un-joined or un-yoked.  Why is this?

You Need to be Advised

People will research and educate themselves on buying a car. People will educate themselves on weight loss and buy magazines, books, and videos to maintain their bodies.  People will study the principles of money management  and study how to make money.

 How many people who are getting ready to be married or are  in the early years of marriage will educate themselves on  on being a Godly spouse?

They will spend time on planning their marriage and researching how to have the best ceremony. But are they  prepared?

The Book of Common Prayer states that "the bond and covenant of marriage was established by God in creation," and that marriage is "not to be entered into unadvisedly or lightly, but reverently, deliberately, and in accordance with the purposes for which it was instituted by God."

If you find a man or woman who will educate themselves according to the Bible about marriage before saying “I do” then you have someone who understands that marriage is not to be entered into lightly but advisedly and reverently.
 

 

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J. T. Wright,
 Author of "When One Flesh Worships"

 
Dear New Bride:

 As you prepare for your husband, I pray God will give you wisdom to accompany your joy along with energy, strength and stamina for your big day.

I am now going to share some of my deepest revelations for a really happy marital life – no holding back. I have never shared these revelations with anyone,  but one day I was led to write my greatest revelations, in the form of a book, for a good friend in the ministry as she prepared for her big day...

After she read “When One Flesh Worships,” she encouraged me to share these God given revelations and said that many couples would be blessed. She told me to sell the book.

Consequently, I hope you will read “When One Flesh Worships” in an unhurried manner during your private time and seek the Lord concerning your union. I am not telling you what I have heard or read out of a book. I am telling you what I know and have experienced,  and the things the Lord has revealed simply because I asked.

May you Ascend,

J. T. Wright

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Alert - Alert - Alert
With Marriage Comes a
  Risk of Pregnancy


                            You Say you will use Birth Control?


What if the Birth Control does not work
 as well as you would like?

Are you ready for the care, nurturing  and
feeding of a little person?

 

 


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women planning to enter into "Holy Matrimony"
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IMPORTANT TIP REGARDING
MARRIAGE COUNSELING

Be leery of who you take counsel from
regarding your marriage and your engagement.

Good friends and relatives who have not given their life to the Lord cannot counsel you according to the Bible for your marriage. Moreover, persons who speak negatively about their husbands, have argumentative and bitter marriages themselves, are not the ones to give you advice.



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Why was this Book
written by the Author?
 

  1. Many married couples simply do not know the amount of shear pleasure, joy, and anointing that God wants to bring to their union when He is pleased with them.
     

  2.  The author would be selfish to deny this revelation to other couples who are struggling even though it required her to share her deepest secrets.
     

    3.





Pre-Marriage Test
Please Get a Pen and Paper
Answer these Questions


1. Do you and your fiancé have a calling from God together?
  If so, what is your purpose?
 
2. How will the two of you do something great for God’s Kingdom together?

3. Are you harboring bitterness or resentment towards anyone?

4. Do you fly off the handle easily?

5. Have you and your spouse given your lives to the Lord and seek Him daily in devotional prayer & worship?

6. Do you have some habits like drinking, drugs and using profane language that you really would like to change, or your fiancé would like for you to change?

7. Are you a giving person?

8. Are you willing to share every dime you have with your spouse?

9. Do you like to share your money period?

10. Are there past traumas that still haunt you?

11. Are you flexible? Or Is it your way or the highway?

12. Do you  have a Bible believing church selected that you are attending together?

13. For the bride, do you regard your intended husband highly and respect him?

14. For the bride, do you think your fiancé is a good decision maker?

15. Do either one of you have friends with whom you are very close to, who are  of the opposite sex?

16. Are you, or your fiancé  sexually involved with someone else right now?

17. Are you marrying your fiancé solely so you can have sex?

18. Can your intended husband be the spiritual head of your household and lead your family according to the Bible?

19. Who will be joining your new family?  Are there going to be  children from previous relationships and can you both accept that? Are you ready to parent your new family members?

 20.  Do you always wake up on the wrong side of the bed?  Are you not a morning person?  Are you  not a night person.?Are you moody? Are you  PMSing 4 weeks out of the month?

21.  Do you prefer  not to be touched?
 

 

 

Analysis of Test Results

1. Let's Talk About Baggage
    REF: Questions 3, 4, 6, 10, 15, 16

Think of marriage like jumping off a cliff into a big river wearing a knapsack. Now, the least amount of  baggage you carry on your back the more apt you will come up  "strokin." -  ie you are least likely to drown.  You must be secure, happy, and self sufficient before you drag someone else into your life.

p.s. According to statistics Christian marriages are heading into divorce at the same rate as non-Christian marriages.

p.p.s According to other statistics Christian marriages are heading into divorce at a greater rate than non-Christian marriages.

2. Let's Talk About Purpose
    REF: Questions 1,2,5,12,17,19


One of the most challenging areas in a marriage is when one person feels led to work in ministry or  to move aggressively in a calling and their spouse does not understand. Case in point, a Pastor who's wife does not want to be a Pastor's wife.  A woman called to work in the ministry and her husband does not go to church. A man called to be a dancer and an actor and his wife wants him to got to community college to be an accountant.  A husband who wants to start a car dealership and is willing to work  75 hours a week at it, and his new bride wants him home and will not set foot  on the car lot.

3. Let's Talk about the Man being the Head of the Home.
   REF: Questions 13, 14, 18

This man is going to lead you and your children. Does he have the
spiritual maturity to cover you? Does he have a Word? If you call him right now can he tell you what "Thus saith the Lord" today. What did the Lord tell him/show him  this morning in his morning prayer and devotion?
 

WEDDING VOWS

 WILT thou have this Man to be thy wedded husband,
to live together after God's ordinance in the Holy estate
of Matrimony? Wilt thou obey him, and serve him, love,
honour, and keep him in sickness and in health; and,
forsaking all others, keep thee only unto him, so long
as ye both shall live?
 

Do you understand what you are agreeing to when you say "I do?"
 
......Wait A Minute....you say you are going to take obey out and that you two are writing your own vows.

OKAY. . Got a minute? ... Let me try to explain this. 
 Lets say I buy a car. It comes with an  owners' manual and the manual says I have to put gasoline in the car.  The manual was written by the creator of the car. Lets say I tell the dealer that I am going to write my own car manual but I still want to buy the car and drive it.

He says "You grown." 

 I buy the car. I don't put gas in the car because I am doing things my way.  The car will not start and I wonder why it won't start. Water builds up in the tank and the tank rusts. I just keep having a lot of problems and I can't understand why.

It's because I decided to do things my way and not the way the creator intended. Enough Said.

4. Let's Talk about being selfish.
    REF: Questions 7, 8, 9

People get married and don't want to share. Don't get married if you do not want to share. Repeat after me " My Husband and I will Share and Be Fair so we can get Somewhere."

5. Let's Talk About being hard to Live With.
    REF: Questions 11, 20

If you are hateful, evil and have attitudes don't get married.

6. Let's Talk About Affection
    REF: Questions 21

Husbands like to touch their wives. Please understand this. Be Advised.

 
 

  Are you Soon to Be Married?
This Message is for You

 

I wish I had read just one Christian Based Primer on marriage before I got married.   Before you get married you must understand what God intended a marriage to be. Lets start with what a husband is not.

1) Your husband is not your roommate. He should not be like one of the dorm buddies. - if you see  him its OK -  if not  - well I'll catch you later.

2) Your husband is  not your  50/50 financial Partner with whom you buy half the groceries and he buys the other half.
Marriage is not a business arrangement, yet you and your husband's money will be pretty much inseparable according to the laws of your state.
4) Your husband is not somebody to have around because all your friends have one  ( a husband that is) or are in the process of getting one.

5) A husband is not someone you find in order to have in-house lawn mowing, trash take-out,  car repair and sexual services.
 

p.s. He needs to find you. Not you find him.
I was married many years before I received the revelation that I needed to educate myself with Bible based materials about marriage. Why did it take so long? I do  not know.
 

Three Tips Before Saying  "I Do"

1. Seek extensive Pre- Marriage Counseling at a Bible believing church with your fiancé.

2. Educate yourself about what Godly marriage is.

3. Pray, Pray and Pray some more about God’s purpose for your life and how your intended spouse fits into that.

 
 


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