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Why Romance Your Husband?
Lets go through the
back door and list
what can happen if you don't
romance.
1. Your love talk can dwindle down to "Did the electric bill come
yesterday?" and "Its your turn to pack the kids
snack."
2. The home will seem stale, boring and like a government research
facility.
3. You may not know the other person is bordering on unhappiness until you
actually get together in a non-sexual secluded
activity and talk.
4. Your spouse can become your roommate.
5. When
you finally get home after fighting the traffic and
the nuts on the road, your unfair boss and your
office mate who spews profanity throughout the day,
you need some adventure and some loving to look
forward to. And that's just you.
What did
your spouse go through all week? In the words
of a friend, "A Man needs a Date" and a "Woman needs
a Date" too.
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Are We There Yet?
Are You Romancing?
Romance Test
Analyze your last Romantic Encounter with your husband.
1. Did the two of you FROLIC -Was
it an Adventure?
2. Did you PLAY anything or
participate in a recreational activity together?
3. Was your time together TWO STEP?
In other words, did you go to dinner and then to the movies.
(That's a TWO STEP activity). Maybe you played tennis,
took a shower together and then had dinner. (Give yourself an
extra 5 points)
4. Did you waste time and be
unproductive (no laptops)?
5.
Did you not discuss problems the entire time?
6. Did you not wear sweat
pants or a "doo" rag?
7. Did the encounter last
over one hour?
8. Did you not bring your
children?
9. Were you not at the home
or business of a relative?
10. Was the encounter not over two
months ago?
11. Did your husband actually talk
or smile?
12. Did you forget about problems
when you were "encountering?"
13.
Were you at any time close enough to inhale the aroma of your
husband?
14. Did you make love within 24
hours after your Romantic encounter?
15. Was it GOOD? - not the making
love, the Romantic Encounter?
16. Was there a breeze, a sunrise, a sunset, an ocean, or a lake?
TEST GRADING: 10 points for each Yes. If your grade is
less than 60 make improvements on your next romantic encounter with
your spouse and schedule an encounter soon.
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What
Is One Flesh
Affection?
ONE FLESH
AFFECTION DEFINED
One Flesh Affection is that God-given magnetism and
attraction between a man and his wife. It is
manifested by being ever cognizant of your better
half and showing care, devotion, and kindness in
small and big ways. It is a longing to be with and a
longing to do for. It is a required adhesive and
glue in a marriage that makes it a marriage.
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More Love Tips
 Keep
essential love items in your purse. You know what they are.
Drink
lots of water.
Increase
the frequency of you and your husband's alone time
(romantic encounters) when you and your husband are under major
stress due to employment, family illness, financial problems. This
will insure that you are not pulling apart.
Grab
time together in small chunks if that is the only way you can find
it.
for example.
A meeting in the parking lot
for 5 or 10 minutes before you go in to work.
15 minutes at lunch time.
The 3 minute phone call
It means a lot to just hug and
hold hands if only for a few minutes.
Kiss
your spouse every day.
If
your spouse is in college working on a masters or other degree, make
sure they understand that the two of you must spend quality time
together during college scheduled breaks. Its important to
your marriage.
Note for wives with hubby in college: Try to locate
yourself near your spouse when they are studying in an undisturbed
manner. If they have groups they study with, definitely get to know
all of his study partners and come along sometime with your notepad
and work on your personal work. Be supportive by dropping off
lunches or snacks or anything else that is needed.
About the Author: If you’re ready for a riveting, real, and
no-holds-barred exposition of what it means to be a loving wife,
then J.T. Wright’s
When One Flesh Worships (paperback, 978-1-60266-865-2) is ready
to deliver. The book re-ignites the matrimonial fire for wives
through an expressive treatise of God’s intended plan for marital
intimacy between a husband and wife.
http://www.WhenOneFleshWorships.com
Copyright © 2007 J. T. Wright
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