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Romance Your Husband
What is Marital Romance?
The alignment of
people, places, and things to cause every sense in
your body (taste, feel, hear, see, and touch)
to desire your spouse while simultaneously
eradicating all the distractions in the world such
that, as far as the two of you are concerned, there
are only two people remaining on earth.
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10 Tips for Romancing on A
Shoe-String
 Find
a waterfront and go park. Do not get arrested. Watch the waves crash
against the rocks. If there is a pier, walk out on the pier and
listen to the waves. Stormy nights and waves are particularly
romantic. The Key to this is that you and your hair must smell
really really good. Then snuggle up next to hubby.
Call
your spouse to meet for desert. Get on his calendar. Find a booth in
the back, in the corner in the dark and order one desert with two
spoons. Sit next to him not across from him so you can occasionally
rub his thigh.
Rub
your husband down with some name brand personal lubricant.
The
next time a Free festival comes around in your town like Bay Days,
book a baby sitter and go with your husband. Hold hands and eat
funnel cake.
Buy
undies and bras that have colors like pink and baby blues – they
don’t cost any more money. Lace is particularly nice also.
The
next time you and your husband are alone for dinner tell him one of
your sexual fantasies. Wait until you are on desert to tell him.
Turn
the TV off and Put a boom box by the bed. If you don’t know what to
play ask some christian friends for suggestions.
Temporarily
suspend the double
dates and feel no guilt.
Write
your husband a letter and tell him how much he means to you. Be
specific.
Turn
off the cell phones and the land lines after 6:00pm. You will need
all your faculties in order to feed the kids on schedule, complete
homework and get them in bed early. Keep in mind, that it can be
quite disconcerting if hubby spends 45 minutes on a phone call with
relatives, after all of your logistical efforts to find One spare
hour to be alone with your spouse.
What's really Romantic to a Man?
Being
able to get a "pass" from the honey-do's to "unwind" doing guy kinds
of things.
Having
his wife cook him his favorite meal after asking him what he would
like.
Getting
a pass to go see the latest "Die Hard" or "Bourne Ultimatum "movie
with the guys if you won't go see it with him.
Buy
Chocolate
Lava
Cake Mix
for
Homemade Romance
Seeing
his wife in lingerie.
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Lets Ask a Guy!
"Do
something he wants to do for a change. It
doesn’t have to be a daily thing, but it should
be a regular occurrence. So what if you don’t
really care for go-karting? Would you have gone
with him before you got married? I’ll bet you
would have.
Letting
him call the shots when it comes to
entertainment for the two of you shows him you
think his likes and interests are important.
And I’ll bet the next time you want to go
somewhere you like, he won’t be as quick to
complain…!"
Quote From
Article -Tips for Married Women
How
to Romance Your Husband
by Danny Davids
Comments from J.T. !
Why does this ring a bell?
I know why! My husband planned the entire vacation
for our family this summer for us and our three
daughters. He said he would take care of everything.
Here's how it went:
●Swimming
with Dad, Ping-Pong, Outback Steakhouse
●Tennis
with dad, IHOP
●Go-cart
riding with Dad
●Water
Park to ride the craziest rides they had with Dad
●Smithsonian
Institute to look at dinosaurs.
●Gym
to lift weights and more swimming...Hummmm
I tried to schedule in visits to Starbucks and
Barnes & Noble. He gave me ten minutes in the
store...
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What
are the atmospheric
deterrents to Romance?
Chores:
Romance does not happen when someone’s mind is on
the fact that the lawn needs to be mowed and there’s
a pile of dirty laundry by the
washer.
Noise:
It may not happen if the kids are wrestling, screaming at the top of
their lungs, and running through your home training for the 50 yard
dash.
Clutter: It may not happen if your you or your husband like the home orderly
and the hot spots are building with stacks of mail, stacks of
clothes and the toilets need cleaning.
Chatter:
It may not happen if you TALK TOO MUCH. Give him some quiet.
This means
romance requires PLANNING not necessarily
MONEY. It may take two weeks to arrange completion
of the chores, elimination of the noise,
rearrangement of the clutter and a temporary
suspension of the chatter.
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What are the subtle deterrents to Romance?
1. Romance may not happen if you are holding bitterness
towards your spouse.
2. Romance will not happen if you are holding unforgiveness
towards your spouse.
3. Romance may not happen if you are picky, nagging and a nit
about little things all week long which may be symptomatic of a
bigger problem.
4. If there are deeper issues in your relationship, the
intimacy of a romantic quaint date with the two of you totally alone
with no distractions may be something you are avoiding.
About the Author: If you’re ready for a riveting, real, and
no-holds-barred exposition of what it means to be a loving wife,
then J.T. Wright’s
When One Flesh Worships (paperback, 978-1-60266-865-2) is ready
to deliver. The book re-ignites the matrimonial fire for wives
through an expressive treatise of God’s intended plan for marital
intimacy between a husband and wife.
http://www.WhenOneFleshWorships.com
Copyright © 2007 J. T. Wright
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