Sex Tips for Wives


Preface:
Note that these nuggets may not be the romantic titillating instructions you had hoped for. However, these hints when taken to heart will go a long way in adding that steam and romance you hoped for. Many times in marriage the flood gates of passion are not broken but simply clogged. Removing the hindrances may be all that is needed.

1. Know your husband
 Although he is a man, his needs do vary depending on things that have gone on during his day. Sometimes he may need some extra pampering, some times he may need a little bit of humor, and sometimes he may need a little excitement.

2. Let him know what you like and don’t like.
 Don’t assume that he can tell when you are enjoying sex. Communication during times of intimacy is a key to making sure that you both are satisfied. Lack of communication can lead to frustration for both husband and wife.

3. Don’t be Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde
The chances of having a wonderful night in the bedroom are dramatically reduced when you have been fussing at your husband ever since he got home from work. It’s too much to ask your husband to romance you in the bedroom when he is constantly under attack for things you think he should have been doing or not doing.

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4. Do not withhold lovemaking from your husband even if you are upset with him.

5. Let him know that you have got his back.
Your husband needs to know that you are a team, and that you are not looking to point fingers, or place blame, but instead that you will work through problems together as a unified front. You might be surprised what your husband will do for you when he knows that you are standing with him no matter what the circumstances you face.

6. Take Care of His Sexual Needs
Know the signs, hints and signals that your husband needs to be intimate. When in doubt, just ask him if he needs you. Overwhelm him with your loving. Its better to err on the side of too much than too little. If you need to improve in this area start immediately and be consistent.

7. Sometimes it’s best to be a listener.
 Despite the fact that most women are more verbal than most men, husbands need to know that their wives actually listen to them when they do have something to say. This rule applies both inside and outside of the bedroom.

8. Keep things that should be between you and your husband between you and your husband.
 Details of intimacy, and details of problems, should not be discussed with male or female friends. You often can lose the willingness of your husband to share from his heart if he feels that his business will soon be on the street. This means not sharing intimate portions of your marriage with your mama.

9. Remember timing is everything.
If your husband is a big football fan, and his favorite team is playing, don’t get upset if you don’t have his undivided attention for deep conversations.

10. Our bodies are used extensively in sex.
 Exercise, diet and that all important water can only enhance your passionate life with your husband. Start today if you have neglected your body and work towards better fitness.

11. Make your house the Zero Nag Zone (ZNZ.)
 Ask your husband one time and then pray that the Lord will lead him. Absolutely no nagging. He may start to avoid you because of the nagging which does not enhance romance.

12. Educate yourself based on the word.
 For greater insight into marital intimacy for women , more tips and the real no holds barred treatise on being a Christian wife get the book When One Flesh Worships. It serves as a great guide based on biblical principles.