Sex Tips for married men who would like
more sex, better sex, and more
pleasure with their wives.

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Preface:
Many of these tips for husbands may seem “non-bedroom” and “non-meat and potatoes” to men. However, the fact that these hints are so important gives a big “clue” as to what can be “big turn-offs” before you enter the bedroom. These nuggets also share insight into the nature of women.


1. Be a Man of Integrity
In order to receive the full brunt of your wife’s love and passion (something that probably 90 percent of husbands have never seen) she will have to trust you and believe that you are what you say you are.

This nugget is equivalent to lessons learned during the team building exercise where you stand behind your partner and they ask your partner to fall backwards in order for you to catch them? For a woman to “let go” in the bed she has to trust you outside the bedroom. That means if you say you are going around the corner to seven eleven she absolutely knows that’s where you went.

2. Get her Attention by handling Things
While making love to you, is she secretly wondering if the leak in the roof over the baby’s room is now dripping into the baby’s crib ( since it just started to storm), and if she has enough gas in the Hugo to get the baby to the sitter 3 minutes around the corner tomorrow morning? Maybe she’s wondering how the light bill is going to get paid on Friday.

3. Be A Gentleman
When she is finished being with you is she happy and complete or is she empty and feels you are about to leave $10 on the nightstand.

4. Find out if she is exhausted and if she is - help fix the problem.
Many husbands fail to realize that their wives really are JUST TIRED.

5. Check Your Heart’s Condition
Does your language – expletives – that flow out of your mouth during lovemaking cause your wife to wonder what is in your heart.

Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.

6. Don’t let your body parts run your Life.
Are you requesting such a diversity of worldly and what would be considered crazy sexual acts such that your wife is really wondering what you are watching on the internet and who have you been with or rather who are you with now other than her.

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7. Think about and pray about what you enjoy watching.
    Do you need to be free of  addictions to highly sexual media?
Are you causing her spirit to groan and hurt because you watch (and may want her to watch) media in your bedroom that makes her want to vomit.
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8. Dwell with your wife according to knowledge.
A woman’s passion is something that flows from her when things are right. You must determine what is really important to her and really care.


9. RESPECT - Does she get just a little Bit?
Is your wife made to feel “less than” because she brings home no check by way of subtle comments like “when you start to bring something to the table then I will ask for your input on blankety blank blank….”

Do you listen to her and love her whether she is “bringing” anything to the table or not. Do you make it known that you are "in-charge" in a controlling manner so that she is constantly reminded that you are the man?

10. Remember the Basics
Take a shower daily. Put on clean fresh clothes that have been washed everyday. Do not try to get three wears out of your shirts and jeans – especially in the summer time. Shave and brush your teeth. Smell really fresh and use mouth wash before coming to bed. If your soap or cologne is causing her allergies or nag her – ask no questions – and stop using it.

11. Care about satisfying her
Take pride in knowing what she likes, what turns her on, and making sure that she is satisfied. Enjoy the time that you and your wife have joined together and be sensitive to meeting her needs before meeting your own. You will find even more satisfaction when you know that you both have been fulfilled during sexual intimacy.

12. Make a concerted effort to take Your Wife on a date at least every other week. By doing so, you are saying:
●I want to spend time with you.
●I want you to have some "non-working" time.
●I want you to relax.
●I am making our relationship a priority.