Tip For Husbands who say
Wife's Figure needs Work

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For Husband who want their wives to be SEXY.

A TIP FOR HUSBANDS
If you are a husband and you’ve decided to visit this site and your wife’s figure needs some work, I have a word to the wise for you.

 I would advise that you not speak to her negatively concerning her figure and that you not verbalize that she needs to go on a diet. Because the Bible says for a man to dwell with his wife according to wisdom. She does not need you to tell her she’s fat. I guarantee you that she already knows that. Trust me on this.

Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
KJV (1 Peter 3:7)

Now King Solomon was the wisest man that ever lived and they say everybody around King Solomon was extraordinarily happy. And if your wife is fat you might want to look at yourself. Many times when a wife is overweight she is stress eating. I would ask you to examine why she is stress eating or stress not-eating?

 Is she so weighted down by her responsibilities in the home and her job and worrying about where you are and what you are doing that she stressing herself out? Is she feeling so unloved and lonely she’s turning to food to fill some void?

I would recommend that you pray for your wife and affirm her and show her love and leave it alone until she makes up in her mind that she wants to do something about her physique. A man needs to speak life into his wife until she feels like a queen. When she feels like a queen, she’ll start looking like a queen. It’s hard to look beautiful on the outside when you are all to pieces on the inside.

For Wives
Now wives, if your husband wants your body to look like Jennifer Lopez, and every time you step out of the house he wants you to look like his queen, he is not being unreasonable or unbiblical. He is not trying to make your life miserable by giving you unreasonable physical demands. A man is suppose to love his wife just like he loves his own body.

If you were to ask your husband right now to go the Men’s Health magazine, flip through the pages and pick a body for himself because God was going to instantaneously turn his body into the one he selected, what type of body do you think he would pick?
Would he select for himself the chubby guy with the two chins? No, he would probably pick a body that had a six pack, bulging biceps, and broad shoulders. The body he would desire for himself would be “off the chain.” Gorgeous.

Now, go back to the origins of Eve in the Bible. Eve was made from Adam. She was pulled from him. We even said she is him. When a man desires that his own body be beautiful it is only natural for him to want his wife’s body to be “off the chain” because she is him.

There is him (Part A—really him with the muscles) and then there’s him Part B—his wife with the curves. He nourishes his body. He cherises his body. Both of them.
Some of the readers just fell off the bus.

A man that loves his wife like he loves himself will want her to feel good, look good, eat well and be good—all the things that he desires for his own body, even if he himself is overweight. That’s why your husband can have a stomach that hangs on his belt and still want you to look like Tisha Campbell.

Tip For Women - Reshaping Your Body

Fat-Flush is a great resource  for women desiring to work on their figure. Nutritionist Ann Louis Gittleman, Ph.D. is the first lady of nutrition. Her plan is tailored for women and their bodies. For women who wish to reverse aging and reshape their bodies, her plan involves:

Cleansing the body
Trimming inches off your waist and thighs
Healthy eating
Smoothing cellulite
Managing hormones

The Fat Flush Plan is the only system that uncovers and corrects the five hidden factors that sabotage weight loss and vitality:
● Liver health
● Food sensitivities
● Waterlogged tissues
● Fear of eating fat
● Excess insulin/excess inflammation, and stress.


Copyright 2006 J. T. Wright